"Hanging out @ the beach"....

So we went to Seal Beach yesterday & had soooo much fun!!! My Mom took the day off work & came with us, Bonnie came & our friend Timmi came with her girls Penny & Leilani. The kids played all day long!! Jailyn & Penny hardly left the water. Leilani & marcus played together in the sand & right @ the waters edge. The waves were about 3 feet but they were breaking really close to the shore so the kids were getting knocked down ALOT!! The best part of the day though was when Bonnie, Timmi & I went out into the water. I haven't played out in the ocean in YEARS!!!!! The funniest part was when after the 2nd wave knocked me down I stood up facing everyone out in the water laughing because I got knocked down, not realizing that bonnie & timmi were laughing because my bathing suit came down & my boob was showing!!! We all laughed soooo hard!! Then a little while later a guy walked by & said to me "Just hanging out @ the beach today?" Meaning my boob!!! It was a GREAT day!! I haven't laughed that much in a looong time!! My Mom, Bonnie, Jailyn & I all got sunburned but it was worth it!!!

Marcus & Leilani holding hands by the water soo cute!!

Jailyn & Penny about to get knocked down

Marcus & Leilani getting knocked down

They planted a Jailyn plant

and a Marcus plant

Jailyn & Auntie Bonnie

Marcus & Grandma

Jailyn, Marcus, Leilani & Penny

Loved Ones Day

Jailyn had Loved Ones Day @ school today.  Instead of celebrating Mothers day & Fathers day separately they combine them.  Every ones Family is allowed to come eat lunch & play at recess with them.  It was cool.  My mom showed up too & we all eat our lunch then they played.  JR played tether ball & hopscotch!!  Here are the pics!!  ENJOY!!

all 4 of us!

Jailyn on the bars

JR & Marcus playing hopscotch

JR & Jailyn Playing tether ball

JR & Jailyn

Jailyn & Grandma

LOVE YOU ALL!!!

Nat

I recently received this in an email and usually I just delete ones like this and move on but some of the things in here really hit home for me.  They are things I already believe and do everyday or they made me stop & say I should try to do that. My favorites are: #'s1,2,3,11,18,20,26,29,33,34,38 & 46 which if you ask Jailyn I told her this one day when she asked why we call some of the people in her life that aren't her blood relatives "Auntie" & "uncle", because they are the special part of our family the part we get to choose & we love them for who they are not just because they are our blood. It's one of my favorite mottos! Well take from this what you will & feel free to share your favorites!!

Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with20God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10.. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most imp ortant sex organ is the brain.
 
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39.=2 0Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

42. The best is yet to come.

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

46.Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.

 LOVE YOU ALL!!!!

Nat